Our mother continues to decline physically and mentally with memory loss. She continues to refuse to move out of her home and does not qualify for attendant care ie Medicaid but doesn't have enough money to hire in for very long nor would she do it. I am in physical therapy for back issues, my sister is waiting for thyroid biopsy. Mom doesn't follow through with any suggestions we give her, today she burned herself with hot coffee after I told her numerous times to use the travel mug I set out for her with lid but she doesn't use it. We know she isn't safe alone, she refuses to leave her home to live with us or anywhere else. We are at our wits end.