Father's third has just filed for divorce and he is 86. I am his only child and have an obligatory( at best) relationship with him for my adult life. He has always been very bitter, manipulative and claims he is clinically depressed. He has seen therapist for as long as I can remember and blames his mother ( and all women) for his feelings of inadequacy. He has a narcissistic personality and leaves me guilt ridden after every call or visit. He refuses to give anyone POA but I am seeing poor financial decisions being made. My morals prevent me from caring, but frequent involvement with him makes me physically/mentally sick and continued contact may hurt the relationship I have with my spouse and children. My husband and I have zero respect for him for many reasons.