I have DPOA for my father. He has dementia, and currently he is out of the state with my siblings in Utah. He was to return five days ago. My brothers have changed the plane ticket for the return flight to "have dad stay and have christmas with us." And wont send him home until Dad decides it is time to come home.
My dad had three appointments this week, and all were missed, because they won't send my father home for him to see his Doctor, interview for placement for memory care, and talk to his VA social worker.
My brothers don't like me, and have convinced my father to drop me as DPOA, changed his bank account, and doing all of this without noticing me.
It is not like he drove himself to the bank, and did all of this on his own. He doesn't drive anymore because he cant remember how to get home! I was notified of all the changes that were made by my siblings, on Wed. Dec. 1st.