When my mother passed away 8 years ago I was asked to move from my home in NY to NC where my other three siblings live and where they had moved our parents to. The reason for this move was to be a companion to my father upon our mother's death as he was not handling it well. I am not working due to disabilities so they thought I would be the perfect one to care for him- long story short he had enphyzema and diabetes at the time but shortly after my moving here he developed dementia to where my duties involved much much more. Visits from my siblings were few and far between but now that my father has passed away as of Aug 27 they want to immediately come here to go through his things. When his home was sold in NY they each got stock from the proceeds but I received nothing. They said that the gov't would have gotten it but truth be told they have always treated me as beneath them because they have the college degrees, fancy homes, etc. At my father's funeral my brother and his wife didn't say two words to myself or my children. At the restaurant afterwards where we all went they sat at a separate table. Now I am being told that I don't live here though I have been living here for eight years now, that I am just " an inhabitant" here so they can come in even without knocking if they want as the home is in our father's name. My daughter was here with my three year old grandson as I had just left an hour previously to do something- they barged in and began to ransack my father's room bagging his belongings up. When my daughter tried to ask them to wait for me they screamed at her and my brother body slammed her to the floor. She called the police who said it was a civil matter. What exactly are some suggestions as to how I can proceed to peacefully have the time to gather and sell my things so I can move back home? I am aware that my sister in NY is executor of the estate yet she has lied to me saying that my brother is, and that he can kick me out if he chooses to.Do I follow ordinary tenant law in that I have 30-90 days to move? My sister who is the executor is the one who asked me 8 years ago to move here to care for my father- with all that has taken place do I have any legal right to bill them for staying and being the sole caregiver if there were no papers stating this situation?