I have major depressive disorder and weight gain, which makes me embarrassed. the weight gain is partly my fault and partly because there is so much food around my parents' house (altho no one makes me eat it.) they are already driving me crazy and they still are relatively self sufficient. I have seen all these scenarios on here and altho I think all of us has strengths we didn't know exist I'm really not sure I can do this. I have a sister in NJ with major health problems and a brother in the UK who just started his own family. Any advice?