My mother it seems is getting ready to lose everything, he has almost 400 k in a account hat somehow is exempt from it and it is going to his two daughters, and my mothers 401k is going to get drained. The house that they live in, in NY is in the daughters names and has been for 7 years. She owns a home in NC which was going to be her retirement home. We are getting conflicting info, she has been told that she has to move into the home in NC, even though they have no home in her or his name in NY. Which is impossible since he is in NY and is sick and for now will getting in home care. So it seems she will have too sell her only home in NC or leave the state and move there now.