I've cared for my dominating, perfect mom for 13 years. Brother and sister won't even take her for a week. She listens in on phone calls, my husband and I have to go to our garage just to talk without her butting into our conversations. If I say anything to her,she cries and asks if I want her to leave. She even calls the doctor to verify I'm not giving her wrong doses of medication,then claims that the doctor and I are both wrong, though her prescription says the same thing. She's told family members that we lock her out of the kitchen, denies she did it, then says she might have been mad at me. My family thinks it's funny . . . I'm tired of it and don't know how to make any of this better. Please help with suggestions. I promised my Dad that I'd care for her,and I want to, but I can't take this.