I am an 85 year old woman taking care of my husband who will turn 88 later this month. I am in reasonably good health but find myself very tired and short of patience most of the time. My doctor has put me on an anti depressant which helps somewhat but I still have feelings of resentment and even anger. We have been married fir 65 years and have had a pretty good marriage. We have one daughter who lives nearby but she has numerous health issues which limit the amount of time she can give to helping out. Is anybody out there in the same situation and if so, let's talk about what you do to keep your head above water.