I always wondered that. I notice it even here, on this site. I find it hard to understand though, the people here are compassionate, loving, caring people who do the hardest job on earth (my belief ) and yet some people can be so hurtful with their comments. I think it's a good idea to give good advice at times but, there is no need to pass judgment on anyone. This is not a board room. I am not trying to be harsh just honest. Maybe there is another web site for that kind of stuff.My heart goes out to all of you who work so hard and have so much love in your hearts to do this job, and a job it is.Love and Peace to you.