I stopped saying yes to everything that she wanted me to do. I have dual power of attorney. In 2016 the doctor that was caring for my my grandmother told me and her daughter that my grandmother needed a POA ASAP and she refused because she was going to live in Illinois with her son. My grandmother lived with me until she was placed in a nursing home with the ok from some of her children. October of this year I decided to let my grandmother come home to live with my aunt to please her. My grandmother pays for rent, food and her own expenses. She doesn't receive the amount of care she needs and now I'm banned for her house. I attended all of my grandmother's doctor appointments and my name is on every document up until this very day. I'm still in contact with all of her nurses because they contact me before they come out for visits. Now they are fighting for legal guardianship and have no clue when my grandmother is having a medical emergency. I just did a well check on my grandmother a few days ago and she was having a health crisis that could've ended her life. I love my family but not as much as I love my grandmother. She still has 13 out of 15 living children and I still ended up being the POA. I need advice ASAP. Please!