Mom will be 96 and I vowed to keep her home - but she doesn't know she is home. She knows me (only daughter) and husband and granddaughter. Everything else is a blur but she can become oriented. She also gets very confused so being somewhere stable will be good and provide the 24 hour care she gets now in a better environment where they all understand dementia. So do I tell her she is moving? Do I just move her? Do I tell her the day before? There are so many opinions! Thanks!