Stressful moments. My mother came to live with us after a month in rehab from hip surgery. It's been a week. We made our family room into her room for the time being. Or maybe for the long term. We use the living room. Anyway, it's been a roller coaster of emotion for me. Maybe for my mom too. I'm hoping it's just because it's the adjustment period. I've been cleaning out her apt., bringing boxes upon boxes here. Donating boxes. So a typical day is where I am up at 5 a.m., go to work, come home and get this or that for my mom, and don't sit down until 9 p.m. I promise you, I am not regretting my decision to have her here, but is it normal to feel real anger, which I hold in, and then I feel guilty. Her physical therapist told her she needs to do more for herself instead of having me do things for her. But she still tells me get this, put this away, on and on. Am I having normal feelings or am I being mean? I need help with this!