What do we do with her when she comes over for dinner. She always gets our backs up. She repeats that she is crazy over and over again and expects an answer. There is no deflecting anymore. I know I can't handle her but it is my husbands birthday tomorrow and we have to have her over. How can we not cause a fight? She is getting worse. I am not sure how people can handle dementia parents living with them I can't deal with her for half an hour. She demands we take her on trips which she can't go on. She will not admit she is unable to travel. She also thinks that if she can't go we can't go anywhere. She can't travel do to the fact she can't get insurance and has a doctor's note on file. She is in denial and thinks the doctor is crazy. She thinks everybody owes her and that they should do what she wants.