After being with Momma for a couple of days - we have noticed that she is having trouble with walking. She shuffles her feet. Has fallen a couple of times and cannot walk for a distance. She will always have to have your arm for support and puts all of her weight on you. I have posted this before about her venting and $%#@$%#! about family and friends. If you try to explain why that person is that way or to just let it go - look on the bright side of things. She does not want to hear it. She will get agitated and then lash out at you (something negative) that she has heard from other family members. She repeats things she shouldn't say. She does this to me - not my husband. Acts different in front of her friends and family and then talks bad about them behind there backs. She argues with you, but I have learned on this part it is not just me - she argues with my brother, sister and housekeeper. I used to let all of this go, but with everything that my husband and I have done for her for the past 5 years - I speak up to her and confront her. When I do - she doesn't have anything to say. I know that this is just "her" and that now she is getting older and probably dementia it is getting and will get worse, but I am going to protect myself and husband.