I'm scared my body will decline too. Taking care my sibling elderly brother, he depends on me for everything, he lives with me since 2003. He can't walk, very thin, picky eater, can't manage with walker and cane, hearing out, can't see well. Services thinks it would be best to have hospital bed, transfer chair, commode in his bedroom, then he stays here, then going into home, it seems they think I'll do more work, It isn't fair! I need my life to enjoy too! I have been looking for low income housing, senior apts, independent living or assisted, eventually I need help too. Does anyone know something, that can help me? It would be appreciated. Thanks, for being there.