My husband is mostly wheel-chair bound. I have to help him transfer to and from his bed and lift chair. I am also aging and need some relief from the constant battles with him and and the lifting/transferring of him. My back and hands are in pain. I have tremors that are getting worse the more pain I am in. I had help when I lived in Port O'Connor from Area Wide Aging that would come in a few times a week so that I could see a counselor and get to the chiropractor. Those appointments made a huge difference in my health which in turn made a difference in my ability to care for my husband. I have asked for assistance from my church and my daughter has looked into off duty nurses that might want to earn a little extra money but nothing has come thru yet.
Would you be comfortable telling us what county you live in? Others on this site may be familiar with specific services.