I take care of my MIL. She's an uncontrolled diabetic as well as an alcoholic and recovering drug addict. She is also a heart patient having uncontrolled high blood pressure 2 heart attacks and a stroke this year alone. She had heart disease and chf and she is on renal dialysis. We have to fight with her to take a bath, wash her hair, change her depends everyday. She sneak and steals sugar food when I am asleep. She sneaks and buys candy and vodka and hides food in her room and has recently taking to throwing out her medicine. She yells at me, her son , and calls her grandson obseen names. She went a month refusing to eat more then a cup of food a day and hides dirty dishes in her dirty clothes. I have gotten roaches from the food she hides not just in her room but in hall closets and bathroom cabinets. She does forget little things like a phone number or where she sat her comb but nothing important or major. I personally feel she is medically incompetent but I'm not sure.