My sister, Executor of our parent’s will, has not let our mom have her social security check of about $1,100 per month, since dad’s death over two years ago. There are several hundred thousand dollars in the estate and mom’s home is fully paid for. I left my 20+ year job in NY to care for mom in PA so she could stay in her home. I am the main caregiver and sole provider. I work nights for $11/hour to care for mom during the day and take mom to my sister’s on my work nights; sis works days. As mom’s condition continues to deteriorate, she needs more help with bathing and dressing. As her son, I am uncomfortable helping mom with those but on our limited resources we can’t afford to hire help.