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If you set it up that way and later decide to move the person to a different facility, you might have trouble getting the SS changed.
I believe we do have the option to sign over the SS to go directly to the NH, but we never really looked into doing that. My thought was that if we had to move LO (or simply wanted to do so) it would be one more hassle to deal with getting her moved and then also having to wonder where her SS money went. Maybe that's not a big deal, but I had the option to keep control of the SS and bank account so I took that route.
I allowed the NH to become payee because I knew Mom would remain in her NH. I also allowed it because I didn't want the headache of dealing with SS and her pension if they cut off payments too early after death. I figured the NH could deal with that.
With SS you get payments like you do when you work, after the fact. So, your December payment is actually Novembers money. If you die in November, you should not get a December check. If you do, SS will recoup it. For someone like me, I get my check the end of December thats for November. So if I die the beginning of Dec I am still due that check but sometimes SS makes a mistake and stops payments when notified by funeral director of the death. So with a NH, they are due that November payment. So I figured, let them fight for it. 😊
Are you the Financial Power of Attorney for someone in this situation? My MIL is on Medicaid in a good facility in MN. Medicaid takes all but $90 of her SS every month and she doesn't have need to even spend that on anything. The facility expanded their number of Medicaid beds so she is now in a private room receiving all the same care as the private paying residents. Often, Medicaid means having to share a room, and my MIL has shared a room since 2016. The facility is not being compensated enough by the government in our opinion (her SS is $1200 monthly). So, is it wise to apply for Medicaid? If the other 2 options are untenable, then it's the only option.
I think my mother received some small amount as a spending stipend, but as I recall, I dumped that back into her ONE all purpose checking account too.