We are trying an in home caregiver but I went by yesterday the day after she was there. The toilet was a disaster, dirty dishes in kitchen. My dad was asleep in the chair with no pants on. He doesn't know what day or month or season it is. He has gone downhill so fast I don't even know what to think. He's incontinent both ways and I find towels with feces on them like he's tried to clean up all over the house. I'm at my wits end.