Sometimes i feel hate towards my mom. i am her caregiver and i also have a full time job. i have two sisters that will sit with mom only while i go to work so i basically do not have a life other than work and come home to her. i have tried to pay someone to sit with her while i go with my daughter and grandchildren to eat and she will have her sitter call and say she is not feeling well that her chest hurts or something and i leave where im at to check on her and she continues pretending so i tell her im calling the ambulance and than she says shes feeling better. i feel so much hatred towards her cause she does not let me enjoy myself. she is ok only if im working. and i get tremendous headaches cause i cant tell her anything. i just have to pretend that i believe her in the meantime i am suffering with this headaches and hatred towards her. and to top it off she will make up things telling my sisters that i am mad at herl i am at my wits end and cant find any soluion to her mistreatment of me. i would rather be working seven days a week than be putting up with her cause work is my only distraction.