My sister, who is only around 2 weeks a year is telling me that I need to treat our Mom like a five year old. To get in her face and tell her she must take a shower now. No negotiating, no say, no choice. Or, not allowing her to choose what she wants for dinner. Or, telling her at 8:00pm that she must close her eyes and go to sleep when there’s no reason for that to happen at that time. Mom is able to tell when she is being treated like a child and it is upsetting to her.