My Mother use to get up each day at 8:30am but recently, she has been sleeping till late afternoon. Mom has dementia but in great health. She has been quite nasty to me lately; accusing me of not loving her; which gets me mad being I take care of her each day. My husband intercedes and gets angry because we do everything we can to make her life livable; not putting her into a nursing home and as we both know she's not doing this on purpose due to the dementia, it's very hurtful and causing problems at home. I have tried to get her assistance, relieving us of some caregiving, but she has approximately over $10K in savings; which is deminishing fast paying her bills and part of that is set aside for funeral expenses and I am trying to find any organization to at least help with partime help in assisting in her daily life that the government sponsors? The only income she receives is $505.00 per month from Social Security. We reside in Upstate, New York. So, two questions.....is this normal for her to sleep so long and is there any help out there that I am unaware of? Most organizations say she has too much money in the bank.