My mom is 80 and fairly healthy; some heart problems. My dad is 90 and has had congestive heart failure issues since his open heart surgery years ago. Last week he was rushed to the hospital and after testing negative to COVID 19, they finally drained his fluid. They also said he has a blood infection. He lost 11 pounds! He was able to come home on Saturday and went to Cardio Dr today. They called and said Dr has two suggestions that they are going to talk about and decide. Then the Dr wants to see him in a month. My thoughts- severe heart failure they have an option to do something or not do something. Which I want them to decide on their own. How do I support them with their privacy, help support him for end of life but not get over emotional? Life is not normal now anyway, but how do I try to keep as normal as possible?