My mom is 91 and is reasonably good health for her age. She has lived with me for almost a yr as she can no longer care for herself. She has gotten incredibly lazy in doing even the simplest things in caring for herself or simple things ..such as throwing things in the trash. She has lost alot of her hearing but refuses to wear her hearing aid. The result being a blasting tv..which I eventually have to leave the house cause I can't stand it I'm feeling resentful and frustrated .I used to look forward to weekends off but now I dread them because I know what's in store for me at home. There are other siblings buy no one offers to help. Any suggestions??