I want some one there during the day who can give her lunch and company. She's afraid of the expense, but she can afford it. I have put this off for a long time because she is set against it and still has enough cognitive ability to take care of herself but all she does now is sleep and eats very little. I'm taking her to a geriatrician this week to see what he says about this. It's been going on for a couple of months now. In a way there's nothing for an aide to do for her except feed her, if she'll eat.