Mum has "mild" dementia, is basically very nice (sometimes TOO nice, IMO), has lost the ability to make "Executive decisions" and it seems she does not give commands to the Aide to do stuff, will not supervise like she used to supervise and give orders to me! lol I do not expect that same level of energy, but is it the Agency who should be coming down on these Home Attendants, the family or both? We've already been through six or seven of these Aides since October of 2015! Two of them brought their young child to the house. Mum promises me to say more to them and then apparently forgets to do so and then I come by and see something is broken, bleach spots on a rug, laundry undone on top of the washing machine, or the bathroom unclean, or the bed just pulled-over and not "made" like Mum likes it or her dinner started so she only has to heat it up. I should not have to remind the Aide to "take Mum for a walk because it is going to be warm today", should I. Sometimes I'm at my wit's end. I know it could be much worse if Mum was crotchety. Need to hear what you guys are going through if similar and some strategies. Guild net says they will reevaluate Mum once it is in-stone when I am moving out of state, by the way. ThanQ.