If sibling has POA over surviving parent, do I have right to info about will, finances, gifting, his health status?

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Parents had agreement/major trust and made "love will". All was to be split 50/50, inherited assets, life insurance, material belongings, valuable and sentimental. Verbal agreement, not in will of deceased parent nor surviving. Almost positive, sister has manipulated father into changing most or all assets to her and to give her permission to take/have now lots of mother's valuable jewelry and all parents' belongings ( $ & sentimental), and has taken tons without his knowledge. Do I have any right to this info., changes to financial inheritance documents, amount of annual gifting, his health status, as parents always wanted both of us to have and work as a team. Does she have the right to not allow me to see him (only a few X/per year) & to never be alone with him for even 30 seconds. I am honest, loving, he & I were very close, there has been no abuse or any reason to withhold this info & keep me from seeing him, seemingly other than that she has/is manipulating him to give all or most assets ($ & material) to her, and change gifting plan of over 20 yrs (50/50) to her likely getting to give her 4X as much (family of 4 vs I am single, no children). Do I have right to know? Legal recourse? Any kind of laws or advocacy around such a thing? I have no funds... medically disabled, receive SSDI (Federal Social Security Disability Income) talking near poverty level, unable to pay for basic necessities. Free legal services in NY don't take cases on this topic. Interested to know if legal recourse/if I have legal rights, regardless of unable to pay for attorney. Would consider 1-hr Attorney time. Thank you!

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It would be an interesting turn if the 1st didn't sign and the 2nd did, based on what the principle wanted. I know in my situation sometimes the 1st wants to do what is "best" for the principle and the 2nd leans more towards just carrying out the principle's wishes. Is it obvious from that statement tat the principle is occasionally diminished in cognition but is not considered incompetent. I wonder where the law would be on that, not that in most instances it could ever come to that. Two people as POA ought to be of a like mind about the principles behind the thing.
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ThereIsNoTry - 2nd on a POA is rather like being an understudy for a role in a play. You do not step in to perform unless the person your understudy for becomes unable or refuses to perform their role. Until then, you are simply on standby.
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I'm second on my Dad's POA and I wonder what rights I have to direct his care. Another sibling is POA and then it names me to be able to sign if sibling "in unavailable" to sign. Seems to me he would always need to be given first right of refusal (or not).
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AnneElaine: In my case, my brother took over our mom's online banking. However, I asked to be a second "looker" on the account and it's a good thing I did. He was pocketing some of the money. Ask to be involved in your elder's finances...or rather demand it!
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So if you have good reason to believe - not suspect - that elder abuse is happening, you can report her to Adult Protective Services. But that will be the end of any decent relationship with your sister.

Is there a pastor, relative or friend who might mediate a conversation with your sister to find out what is happening? Start soft and sweet if you want to avoid trouble. Tell her you want to make sure she is getting the help she needs to take care of your father.

We know nothing about you. You may be a perfect saint. But sometimes we deal with our own siblings who contribute nothing, but are always ready to criticize. If you are not that person, do what you must to protect your father's interests.
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Agree with the person who said you may not realize the costs going into your father's care. I am POA and I have boxes of receipts for purchases I have made on behalf of my father in case any of my siblings questions handling of his affairs. What I wish I had back was the time I have spent on it and the loss of my personal income because of it.
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The answer to this, legally, is that the POA has a responsibility to keep the finances, legal documentation and other items private. The POA has NO responsibility to share any documentation with anyone, even potential future heirs, and in fact it is their responsibility not to share this information and to keep their ward's information and finances private.

Wills unless filed with the state are private legal documents. Once the will holder passes, only then are all heirs mentioned in the will required to be notified.

The only way to override this, is if the ward/will holder WANTS to share this information with family or friends or heirs or whoever, and has stated in these documents that the information should be shared in the case they are incapacitated. In some families where there is no ill will or contention, the information is shared before the ward/will holder becomes incapacitated by they themselves passing out copies of the documents. Or, if the ward/will holder expressed verbally that the information should always be shared, the POA can made the decision on the basis of respecting the desires of the ward to share the information.

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This is a good question. Only I'm using the info in reverse. I'm wife/caregiver and have POA (legally) over Hubby's trust. He has 2 other children by a previous marriage and we get along pretty good, for now. So far, only one child has been questioning me. I just give her what she wants to read. So, as I say, I'm on the reverse and, if she questions me more, I can have some answers.
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Hm. I often wonder, when somebody talks about having 'POA over' a parent, if the slapdash phrasing doesn't say quite a lot about that person's mindset.

To clarify. Your sister does not have power "over" your father. He at some point gave her the power to act FOR him, because he trusted her to use it properly.

So why is it that you have lost trust in her to do that? What makes you, as you say, almost positive that she is asset-stripping now and plotting to downsize your inheritance later?
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My two sister's were always writing up new wills for my mom to sign! My mom was too senile and didn't even know what she was signing. The last time I saw the paperwork, I told my mom I wanted to read it first. My sister hated me after that, my mom didn't sign it. Well... maybe you take a page from my/your sister's book and draw up your own paperwork and have your dad sign it!
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