Became father's caregiver when my mother was hospitalized. My mother has been the primary caregiver for my father, who has advanced dementia. She was hospitalized and is in rehabilitation. In the meantime I have been caring for my father. I had an aide come to the house but that became too expensive. My father has his good days but his bad days are scary. I know he has a disease but he can become angry and won't let me change his clothes. He won't let me touch or bathe him and he really needs to get clean. He has refused a bath from the home health aide. It is really becoming a problem. I feel like I am way over my head in caring for him. Is the next step a memory care facility?