I'm really at a loss right now. My 87 year old grandmother had a spill two months ago and broke her hip. The trauma of surgery and rehab amongst other things has triggered memory loss so my mom took her in for an evaluation. It turns out she's in the early stages of dementia and she was diagnosed with early stage blood cancer which requires her to get a shot and her blood drawn every day. My mother is currently trying to take care of this all herself but it's wearing her out. My father recently passed away and my mom works 50+ hours a week on top of looking in on my grandma. We've looked into assisted living homes but the wait period is just too long. My mom inquired about an in-home caregiver but she's been very vague about the response. I don't know what to do. I work full-time and live 30 miles away from both of them which makes it difficult to them on a regular basis. I know my mom is stressed out and she is so upset over the loss of my father and I feel completely helpless. Any advice or information anyone can provide would be extremely helpful!