I am an adult survivor of mental, verbal, physical, and emotional abusive parents. They were also hoarders. Mom was bad, not as bad as my father. He is now in a rehab nursing home, and l was told today the second worst patient on his floor. How do I pretend to care, for a man who has been nothing but cruel up until he became sick. I am the one now stuck being responsible for making decisions for him (I have two siblings who want nothing to do with him) I also was given my grandparents apartment, since l cared for them as well. I may lose my home, due to my father being a selfish, self centered man, having done things that are too numerous to list here. He transferred nothing into anyone's name, but his. I am terrified that my house will be taken once his insurance runs out. What do l do? He has an elder care lawyer, but l am Leary that his interest is only getting paid by my fathers estate. I also have three tenants that live here as well. This house has been in our family for over a hundred years. Help! I can't sleep, l can't eat,I have no where else to go.