Could you please fill us in, here on Forum, as to WHY you believe that your daughter is attempting to take over your finances? Could you let us know HOW she is doing this? Because with so little information here we really cannot direct you to the proper help. I will only suggest you take your concerns to an Elder Law Attorney, unless we hear an update from you.
Peggy Sue is correct that you cannot post your private information here on the Public Forum. As you can imagine this is an open Forum where people can drop by to read any time they wish. Your public information posted here could make you prey to those out there who might wish to take advantage of you.
We continue to wish you the best and hope you will update us.
PeggySue2020, I wondered how you knew that rule about phone numbers. It doesn't surprise me, but do you know if there is the same rule regarding posting your e-mail address, and if so, where can I find the rule (and any other rules I should know)? Thank you very much!
Good for you. I found out that my father has been a victim of elder financial abuse by my sister. While you are of sound mind hire yourself a fiduciary that will help you pay your bills and will know your wishes as to how you want to proceed in the future should your health or memory fade. We hired a fiduciary for my Dad 2 1/2 years ago now and the fiduciary is still wrangling some of his assets and finding lots of discrepancies. It sad to know that a Family member could take such advantage of they're parents and act as if they do nothing but help them.
We need more information from you Gunny. Meanwhile, RealyReal is correct. She an attorney. Make your wishes known for just who you want to help you. Next trip is to your Bank, and a discussion with your Bank Officer that you do not wish your daughter interfering with your accounts. Thirdly a lock and key on your documents, all of them, your check book and charge cards. You can order a simple small fire safe on Amazon and have a handyman bolt it into your floor on the bottom. The attorney will help you to make out documents that forbid daughter from interfering. If you do not have another option you may consider hiring a Licensed Fiduciary to take over when you are in need. I wish you luck.
Unless I have missed a post, we don't know why Ginny has these fears an if there is any evidence to back them up. I think the answers would dictate the actions Ginny should take.
Here is the post that DID have gunners phone number.
Thank you admin for removing his information from the open internet.
Could you please fill us in, here on Forum, as to WHY you believe that your daughter is attempting to take over your finances? Could you let us know HOW she is doing this? Because with so little information here we really cannot direct you to the proper help. I will only suggest you take your concerns to an Elder Law Attorney, unless we hear an update from you.
Peggy Sue is correct that you cannot post your private information here on the Public Forum. As you can imagine this is an open Forum where people can drop by to read any time they wish. Your public information posted here could make you prey to those out there who might wish to take advantage of you.
We continue to wish you the best and hope you will update us.
You’re bringing up being retired pd and marines, and her moving to California, suggest you’re very much afraid of losing control.
Of what?
Good for you. I found out that my father has been a victim of elder financial abuse by my sister. While you are of sound mind hire yourself a fiduciary that will help you pay your bills and will know your wishes as to how you want to proceed in the future should your health or memory fade.
We hired a fiduciary for my Dad 2 1/2 years ago now and the fiduciary is still wrangling some of his assets and finding lots of discrepancies.
It sad to know that a Family member could take such advantage of they're parents and act as if they do nothing but help them.
The attorney will help you to make out documents that forbid daughter from interfering. If you do not have another option you may consider hiring a Licensed Fiduciary to take over when you are in need.
I wish you luck.