I took my mom in with me and my husband less than a year ago... against her wishes. She has early Alzheimers dementia and couldn’t live alone anymore . It wasn’t safe for her to be alone. So we did what we thought was the right thing. Almost a year later my husband feels it was more than he bargained for and being in his 60’s is starting to get depressed himself. He feels she should be in a home although I’m on the fence I cherish both my husband and my mom I can’t stand to see my husband feeling like the life is being sucked from him by living with my mom. I’m just so stressed knowing if I do go ahead and get her placed she will not only give up since she says she finds no joy in life anymore but I’m not going to be able to spend time with her due to this awful Covid crisis restrictions.
Any advice or words of encouragement?