I take care of my mom by myself 24/7. I'm having to feed the animals, I have three cats and one dog, and now my brother wants to come home because he is in a rehab / nursing home Texas and my mom is always asking for him which I know that he needs to come home but he is an invalid he can't take care of himself; he had a stroke a year ago and can't walk and can't get himself in and out of bed and I have no strength to lift him. My daughter lives here with her fiance. He does a lot of stuff for her, but she has real bad anxiety and depression so even though she has him, she wants me to be around her too and I can't be two places at 1 time so I hear it from her if I'm not with her. My mom doesn't understand how come I'm not with her even though she doesn't know who I am at the time I was taking care of 3 cats beating and everything and taking care of a dog. I just don't really know what to do. I know my health has gone down. I haven't been to doctor probably for 3 or 4 years. I have arthritis and depression and both of my knees need replaced. I have real bad migraines and I get upset with my mom and I know it's not her fault. They say that people with Dementia are like little kids but with little kids you can somewhat reason with them I was her there's no reasoning. I fight with Mom every meal trying to get her to eat and I go out of my way to fix her something and then she won't eat it and I get really defensive and upset and I don't know what to do. If anybody can give me any suggestions that would really help. Tried to get help around here and there's no help around here everything is far away but if I could get respite for a few hours a day so I can do something by myself on my own but I can't even get that. The only time I really have to myself is when everyone is sleeping at the same time which is a very rare. I used to talk to my cousin but my aunt just passed away from having dementia I guess so I really don't feel right venting to him after he just lost his mom. Thank you in advance for any help.