Or tell them Mom is fine here at home with me? We are both healthy. They all want her in a nursing home but we have Home Health nurses coming by regularly and her blood pressure and edema have improved greatly lately. She loves living in her own home and I don't mind living with her. She is 91 but in good health. I give her medicines every night and take her to all of her doctor appointments. The siblings I think want her in a home so they won't have to worry about her, but she totally does not want that and loves being in her own home. She thinks it a great waste of money to go to a home. I think the siblings resent me for all the reasons siblings so that sort of thing.