Allegations are false. My husbands youngest sister wants complete control over their Mom and bullies all the siblings. Actually she thinks nothing of getting in anyones face and going off on them. Mom, 85, is in the early stages of dementia and loves all of us to come visit and do things for her. We have asked numerous times, and have yet to see, legal documentation of POA, which Sis claims to have. If those were Mom's wishes we are ok with it, just want to legally know. There have been ugly disagreements, which we do not discuss with Mom, although Sis doesn't hesitate blabbing to Mom her side of any arguement, trying to make us look bad. This upsets Mom, but Sis yells at all of us for upsetting Mom. As far as we know Mom is still able to make her own decisions. She is not a wealthy woman. If Mom requests us or a sibing to take her to do something, Sis will call the person or business where we have been and yell at them telling them she is POA, then abusively attack us. She accuses us of messing with Mom's finances even if there is no cost to doing something Mom has requested. Sis is the only one to have a debit card to Mom's checking account. She has recently sent the same accusatory certified, not legal, letter to all siblings badmouthig us and telling us what we can and cannot do for Mom and that "I am POA PERIOD,". We all considered the source and had a good laugh. In the letter she stated twice that she has reported my husband and me to Adult Services. This accusation is completely false. My question is, will Adult Services contact us? We suspect she is lying about the report. My husband and I both do jobs in which we have had background checks and fingerpriting done, we have never done anything to hurt or upset Mom. I almost say bring it on, but it upsets me that someone would tell lies about us to others. We want to work together for the health, safety and welfare of Mom, but constantly recieve resistance from the younger Sis. Thanks for any suggestions. Feels good just to vent and know we are not alone. Thanks for reading.