Or in a facility and he's done this for years .....but they have said if she don't stop like now I'm having trouble getting a Dr. to take her as a patient ...but she time consumes. Til I can't get time to do it ....she uses my guilt ....I feel awful all the time but now that I quit working 3 years ago when she needed full time help ...my house lacks about 10 payments is there a way. I'm her durable power of attorney n always kept track of every receipt n I didn't even realize til recently my whole life is wrapped up w my mom. Cus I never have fun anymore I love my mother but idk what to do. Like if I will be able to keep my home. N things n I feel awful asking.