An in-law suite can provide safety and support for older family members while preserving everyone's privacy. A multigenerational household may seem convenient, but there are many factors to consider before moving to a larger home or building an addition.
Another consideration is to check with your local Area Agency for the Aging. From them, once your name rotates to the top, you may receive a small amount. That will help you with your ability to hire someone for a short time here and there for grocery shopping, etc. Or, a mini vacation by reason of their payment to an accredited facility.
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