This is a son that never came to see his parent in the 15 years we have been together. This son sold my car and took all of my personal items, all my medical items and medication. I am sick and 68.
If you are legally married (or if not common law is recognized in your state) you should be entitled to marital assets, I think you need to speak with a lawyer.
The police, sounds like an illegal eviction to me. Why did he kick you out? This could easily be considered elder abuse. Adult Protective Services. Get an attorney.
Does your id show that this is your place of residence?
I am sorry for your loss. By what authority did your stepson evict you from your home? Was your name on the title?
Did your late husband have a will, or did he die without one?
More information will get you better advice here.
Adult Protective Services.
Get an attorney.
Does your id show that this is your place of residence?