I take care of his financial needs because he has medical issues, 3 kids, wife has passed, and he's a working dad. He takes time off for a special needs child and it really cuts his pay. So my retirement fund is almost gone. But after reading the pain and heartache my living with him might cause I think I should maybe just go travel to another country. At 66 I think I don't want him to see me less than whole. Reading this stuff makes me realize I'm probably already a pain in his butt. I'm a single old lady who talks too much.