I cared for both parents for 2 years. mom ended up going into hosptal with my dad when i retuned to work. I brought mom back to her home @ her request and moved in with her. Siblings put my dad in a NH. I stayed with mom till the day she died. dad still in NH. MY brothers want me to vacate the matrimonial house,but i want to bring my dad home and care for him. My brothers say they just want to sell the house, yet its not up for sale and was told i could stay untill it was sold. Found out my daughter had my mom co-sign a mortgage for her(own house) and got my mom to buy her a brand new car. my daughter doesnt talk to me hasnt for sometime makes up exuses but is in with my brothers on alot of things. I have felt abandoned although it didnt stop me from caring for my parents. Any ideas? suggestions? They seem to be sabotaging any effort I make. I have family secrets maybe thats why? They wont talk to me or tell me anything.i was always a daddys girl and was employed for 6 years as a PSW.