My mom almost died and is now in a rehab hospital. Once she leaves there, she will need 24/7 care. I live in another state and I want to move her in with me to take care of her. My stepfather refuses because he "needs her here to take care of him". He is perfectly able to take care of himself, he is just lazy. Before she was sick, she waited on him hand and foot. I am afraid mom will try and continue as before and will end up killing herself trying to take care of him when he needs to be taking care of her. She knows she can't do it but but she will die trying. I've asked her to come and she says "lets go" but then he makes her feel guilty and she won't go. He refuses to move. This man controls everything, nothing is hers, not even her social security check. It goes into a bank in his name only. Any suggestions?