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Get a reputable elder attorney to help you with your affairs. Look on YELP>com or ask a trusted Doctor or friends for referrals .
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Do not ask your adult children to be caregivers. Let them be your kids. Let them enjoy visiting you not dreading a visit.
If you can afford it a move to a CCC Continuing Care Community. A community like that will have Independent Living for now. Assisted Living for when you need a bit of help. Memory Care if you ever need that level of care and Skilled Nursing if you need that.
OR
Remain in your home but you have to be willing to accept caregivers when you need them either part time or full time as your needs dictate.
BUT
In order to remain in your house you might have to do renovations to make it safe for you to remain there. If it is set up like that now you are a step ahead.

Complete a POLST form (it goes by other names in some States)
This medical document spells out what type of medical care you want.
CPR?
Intubation? Yes or no? If yes for how long?
Tube Feeding? Yes or no? if yes for how long?
IV"s? Yes or no? If yes for how long?

Plan your funeral and pre pay it. This way they will not be pressured to do things they can't afford (you can't afford) or you would not want. Not to mention to pay it now will cost less then in 5, 10, 20 or ?? years when you do die.

You say your Will is done.
Is your house in a Trust? Your Assets in a Trust?
Make sure you talk to your attorney about avoiding Probate.
Do you have a POA for Finances?
Do you have a POA for Health?
You can chose different people for each role.
Make sure the person that is POA for Health is FULLY aware of your wishes (see info about the POLST above)
((The POA and the POLST have pretty much replaced the "Living Will"))
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Leave your adult children out of it, at least in the first steps. The reason? You may assume they want to be your caregivers. They may not. Nowhere is it written that they MUST take care of you in your old age. They have their own lives and must save for their own old age care. They probably have children, spouses, partners etc. etc., and those people may not be thrilled at the idea that they must give up good times, many days and nights, vacations, and so on to assume long-term care of you.

It's a sobering reality, isn't it? Begin looking at all your options. Start with continuum of care facilities where you can start out in Independent Living, move into Assisted Living when you need more help, and finally Memory Care if you need it, all on the same campus. You'll enjoy activities and outings and make friends without upending your adult childrens' lives. You can sell your house or use other assets to pay for such a place.

I would never expect my adult children to take on the burden of caring for me, and I've made that very clear to them.
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The best place to start is an initial consult with a certified elder care attorney. You Will doesn't benefit you, it only benefits the inheritors.

The other best thing to do is not assume that any of your children will be your hands-on caregiver. I recommend you choose your most local and competent child or children as your DPoA. Once you have a consult with a CELA then you have this chosen child or children accompany you to the appointment where you will actually create the documents (trust, or just PoA, Healthcare Directive, other). You should research the cost of in-home care and facility care -- it is very expensive so it's good you are thinking about this now!
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