My mom is wheelchair bound and is total care. But she is great at getting around in her wheelchair. She uses briefs when out and about.
She's too with it for adult day care - most adults there are dementia patients. She'd hate it.
She needs just enough supervision that she can't be in a job or role that is independent. She needs assistance with physical tasks as she cannot stand and only has one working arm. She cannot write well since her working arm is not the side she used to write with.
She has just enough cognitive decline that I don't know of a job that will suit her abilities. Her stroke in 2007 permanently messed up her understanding of numbers. Her reading comprehension is slightly off.
But other than that she is fine. She can carry a conversation for hours. She loves talking about her past and getting to know new people. She is clever.
Help!! My mom is just rotting away in her little apartment with no prospects.