I need help finding an attorney in North Carolina.....while I live in Virginia.

My grandmother is living with her younger daughter. There hasn’t been any hearings. We haven’t talked to her or seen her because of being ignored, so we suspect. I and my mother would like to share the responsibility of caring for my grandmother and my mom’s mother. My aunt and uncle have pushed us out of her life and do not wish to have anyone else’s help. Something smells fishy. They want to put her in a nursing home. I don’t want that. It’s not necessary.  I take care of elderly people now! I am an at home caregiver for mentally and physically disabled people. Why? Maybe my personal life choice? I need help!!