I'm a 24 year old newlywed who became responsible of my 90 year old grandmother 3 months ago when my grandfather got hit by a car in November. I've searched for guidance in this process, but seems like I'm running around in circles. It's just me and my husband and for this reason it's been very difficult. We're doing the best we possibly can but sometimes I fell she'd be better off in a facility that can provide the care she needs. I do everything with my heart but I don't have the knowledge to handle this disease, and it becomes extremely difficult and stressful at times. I don't know if I can deal with the guilt of placing her in a facility that can help, but at the same time I had to stop working, school and even had to turn in my car. I'm lost, really lost. She's always been there for me, raised me and guided me, It's always been me and her since I was born. I feel it's my turn to do the same for her yet there are so many other factors. I'm open to any advice. Also, I don't know how to go about having her legal custody in order to manage her Dr. appointments and finances.