I assumed she would leave me in charge of everything because my brother is not all there but he's her firstborn and Biblically she thinks that's the right thing to do. I, however am becoming quite disenchanted with them both. They act like I'm the outsider. When I' m doing most of the cooking, cleaning, errands and taxi driving for them. I can not get a job now because I don't have the time. My life revolves around them.
I am also very concerned about the day when something happens and I have no rights to do what's best for my Mom because my brother has POA, (I think.) My Mom refuses to discuss anything with me! When I ask her questions she says let's just take one day at a time. I not only have her to think about, there is my brother too. Which has had a mild stroke already. Plus his mental condition.
Please give me some ideas on how to cope with this situation.