I have been taking care of my mom since my dad died 6 years ago. I stay with her 2 weeks out of every month. I have a husband and a family, and it’s taking a toll. My sister and my brother do nothing, absolutely nothing! They just live their lives. I am worn out. She is showing signs of dementia, I’m trying to get guardianship. But when I take her to primary doctor or neurologist she tells them she does everything by herself. She doesn’t. I have cameras and when I am not there she walks around the house lost. I am so worn out that all I want to do is sleep and de-stress when I get back to my family and it’s causing problems with the husband. She needs assisted living. But I feel so guilty because I promised my dad I would take care of her and let her stay in her home. I just can’t continue living from suitcases. She is stubborn, gets mad at me when I remind her to take meds, etc. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I love my Mom, but I have no life and my family is being sacrificed. Any suggestions or help would be appreciated.