My brother has been a pain for the last year or so and he wanted nothing to do with being POA, now he claims I bully mom and her care facility because I found out she had COVID-19 and ordered them to hospitalize her. She has AFib and I felt the need for her to have more attention than they could give. Good thing as they found pulmonary embolisms. Now, brother is fighting for POA. I feel something is a foot as he's been interested in her financial matters for over a year but clearly stated that he could lose everything he worked so hard for. I am suspicious,is this some kind of take over after caring for moms needs for the last 8 years?
He claims he will hire a lawyer to remove my POA ability.
Something stinks!
Thanks
I would ask about who this "caseworker" is. As POA you have a right to know. Medicaid caseworkers don't get involved with care once Medicaid is OK'd. You hear from them when its time to renew Medicaid. There are SWs at the facility and Hospice may have one. I would make sure this person know you. If Mom has Dementia the SW should be talking to you. If not, Mom can give permission for you to be in the loop.