He is 74 and I am 73. He has Lewy Body Dementia and had had a stroke a year ago. He struggles to see, hear and speak. He is no threat to me or himself. He is now sleeping 16 hours a night which denotes depression and is completely reliant on me to do everything. He expects me to entertain him during the day and I wish I could, but I have chores to do all day. I'm tired and isolated and long for a life. How do I know when he is ready to go into a facility for both our sanity.